Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy!
Thanks Karen… (Nonetheless, I shall leave this post in place as a monument to my flaws and to allow my detractors to revel in my shame….)______________________________________________________________________________________________
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this previous article, I expressed sympathy for Princess Masako who had been effectively exiled to her maiden-family’s country home after failing to inject life (in the form of contemporary style and vital male heirs) into the moribund Japanese imperial family – the way Princess Diana had done for the British royal family and as all of Japan expected her to do.Indeed, unforgiving Japanese imperialists determined that Masako had failed spectacularly…in both respects. And they were not shy about expressing their disappointment and speculating as to reasons why she was unable to fulfill her imperial duties.
Of course, to Westerners, Masako always seemed every bit as glamourous as Diana and she was confirmed to be properly fertile after giving birth to a beautiful baby girl in 2001 – 8 years into her marriage to the future emperor of Japan. But to the Japanese, her failure to produce more children – a boy in particular – made her seem barren. And, her baby girl became more an object of resentment than a symbol of national pride.
Ironically, it seems inevitable that such national pressure to produce a child would induce prohibitive performance anxiety in any woman. In fact, in Masako’s case, it not only inhibited her physically but also led to a nervous breakdown as her 10th wedding anniversary approached in 2003, which precipitated her exile.
What is even more ironic, however, is that after demands to produce a male heir almost drove her insane, the Japanese government introduced a historic bill that would allow Masako’s daughter and other females to ascend the 2,000-year-old Chrysanthemum Throne. And, if all goes according to the government’s legislative agenda, this bill will be enacted into law well before Masako’s baby is born.
And why not? After all, some of history’s most successful and revered monarchs were women. And, though I find monarchies
absurdly anachronistic, the most famous and respected monarch in the world today is undoubtedly Queen Elizabeth II of Great Britain.At any rate, Masako (42) is finally
pregnant again. But, if reports are accurate, it’s early days yet (6 weeks). And the only question on people’s minds in Japan is: is it a boy?It’s easy enough to find out, of course. But I hope Masako has a sonogram just to alleviate stress and give herself the best chance to have as healthy a pregnancy as possible. (Although finding out that she’s pregnant with another girl might trigger a spontaneous abortion….But let’s not go there….) However, even if it’s a boy, I hope she makes everyone else wait until the child is born to find out!
Because, as we all know, so much can still go so very wrong….
Princess Masako, Japanese Imperial family, male heir
Jennifer says
Hi Anthony
This poor woman. I had no idea she was going through all this stuff. That’s so backwards them pressuring her like that for a boy.
I know you’re too busy with work to answer my questions but what do you think she’ll do if it’s a girl?
BTW: Great artile on the Grammys. You were absolutely right about Mariah and Kanye. LOL!!!
Karen says
I think you’ve got the wrong end of the stick on this one Anthony. Isn’t it Princess Kiko, wife of the Emperor’s second son, who’s pregnant, rather than Crown Princess Masako?
But you can save the article and rerun it, in the event Masako DOES end up preggers!
ALH ipinions says
Karen
Thank you so much for alerting me to this egregious error. I am grateful for your keen reading of my articles. And please do not hesitate to correct me as warranted in the future.
Jennifer
Thank you for understanding that, despite my desire to engage readers like you who take the time to comment on my articles, my professional obligations make it impossible for me to do so (in anything approaching real time).
But please be assured that I appreciate your dedicated interest in my iPINIONS journal. And I hope you continue to find my musings worthy of your precious time.
Jennifer says
OMG!!!
Hi Anthony
I always knew you were brilliant but now you’ve shown me you have class too. Most men in your position would have taken down that post and pretend like it was never there. Even my girlfriends Lisa and Debbie who always thought you were just an intellectual snob and who still think you’re a white guy posing as a black guy were so impressed by how you reacted to Karen they have decided to become founding members of my ipinions fan club.
Thanks for mentioning me. You’ve made my day.
Anonymous says
Jennifer, you have no idea how right you are. I know for a fact that when the guy who writes the Daily Kos, which is like the biggest blog in the world, got caught in a similar situation, he just deleted the post and pretended it never existed.
I think it takes real courage and yes class to do what Anthony did to correct his mistake. After reading his original article on Masako though I don’t even think it was that big a deal. It’s still a terrific read. Besides, even I get those Japanese names mixed-up and I lived there for 3 years.
Tim
Karen says
I think egregious is a bit harsh, Anthony. But kudos for owning up to it.
All the best,
Karen (in London)